Coming+Out

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If you have realized and accepted your sexuality, you may have decided to come out of the closet. You may want to stop and think about whether you are doing the right thing by confiding in certain people at this point. The key is to know if you are ready, then choose the first people you tell for their potential as positive supporters, and then decide whether or not you would like some of your more casual acquaintances to know. If you are in a relationship, your partner will hopefully be able to support you through this.

Realize that you're making a brave choice, and you will be much happier in the long run than if you tried to hide it.

Being Comfortable with Yourself
If you are not comfortable with the idea of being publicly gay, bisexual or lesbian, think about it thoroughly. Not everyone is ready to let go of old prejudices, but by coming out and being a visible member of the community, you're making a difference in creating social change and acceptance. Although others may initially feel uncomfortable or awkward with your disclosure, the happiest and most authentic life is only possible if you are open with those around you.

How do you feel you can make a difference in creating social change by coming out?
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Have you come out? Please, share your story to encourage and help others.
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It Gets Better
If you're being bullied in school, you're not alone. There is someone here for you - someone who cares and understands: celebrities. Along withl The Trevor Project, a confidential, toll-free, suicide hotline for gay & questioning youth, some of today's celebrities, gay and straight, are stepping forward with //It Gets Better//. And check out their YouTube Channel.

Why do you think it is important that celebrities get involved in the fight against gay bullying?
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For more on The Trevor Project visit www.thetrevorproject.org

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